On The Edge

Standing At The Edge Of The Threshold

The Moment Right Before You Say Of Do The Thing You Can’t Take Back You’re standing at the edge of something. Not metaphorically. Actually. There’s a conversation you’re about to have. A decision you’re about to make. A truth you’re about to speak. A threshold you’re about to cross. And you can feel it. The…

Body Signals

What Your Body Knows Before Your Mind Does

What Your Body Already Knows That Your Mind Keeps Rationalizing Away Your body knew before your mind admitted it. That the job was wrong. That the relationship had ended. That something fundamental needed to change. That you were pushing past your limits in ways that weren’t sustainable. It tried to tell you. Through tension in…

Changing

How Your Change Affects The System?

Why The People Around You Resist Your Growth (And What That Tells You) You’ve changed. You can feel it. You’re clearer about what you want. More willing to set boundaries. Less tolerant of things that used to be fine. More honest about what’s not working. And the people around you are not happy about it.…

Insight

  The magic of insight.   Insight sometimes comes from hindsight, in can often come from a simple conversation, not necessarily in the moment but in the afterthought, it can come while you are walking outside or in the shower. The magic is that it can change the course of action long enough to assist…

Helplessness to Advancement

As a health professional I see a lot of people, groups, companies who have fallen/assumed/been taught a helpless and hopeless set of thoughts and consequent actions/behaviours. Regardless of the area I see them, homes, health settings, workplaces, educational settings, social situations. It often makes me wonder how they got there. My logical mind and training…